Today, sexual content is easier than ever to find – a man doesn’t even have to go to the store to see porn. Likewise, he no longer has to go to a bar when he wants to meet a girlfriend. Virtual sex — or cybersex — continues to grow in popularity, as it is yet another way to virtually meet and connect with a partner. Learn about this hot trend and why a guy doesn’t have to be a super geek to find out. Also check out some tips to keep the penis healthy and ready for the money shot when the pants come off.
How do you do that
There are many ways a man can practically get into trouble with his bad self. Due to the accessibility of computers equipped with webcams and microphones, perhaps the most popular way is “face-to-face” over the Internet. While many men still enjoy phone sex, sexting, sexy emails or even online chatting with words – no cameras – it all depends on how adventurous he feels.
Virtual sex of any kind is something that both singles and couples can partake in. They can participate regularly, or just on nights when they want to spice things up a bit. Some men use the same partner – either a real partner who currently lives remotely – or a sex partner they met online; while others prefer to find a new fling every time they log in.
Best of all, a guy doesn’t need to have a degree from MIT to be successful with a girl online. Guys can meet willing partners in chat rooms, on message boards or other online dating sites. All he needs is a computer with an internet connection – and the ability to type with one hand when he’s not using a camera or microphone!
Is it safe?
From a sexual health point of view, yes! In fact, it’s probably the safest form of sex out there – because cybersex is really just simultaneous masturbation! As long as individuals entering into this cyber relationship protect their identities, do not consent to personal sexual encounters with strangers, or disclose other personal information (such as address or credit card numbers), this is a perfectly safe way for a man to have his fun. Some people even remain completely anonymous by using a fake name or even wearing an intriguing mask over their faces. Users beware though; you never really know who they’re communicating with – especially if there’s no camera to verify the look. So a guy might think he’s fine with a hot girl in his twenties, but in reality it could be a guy in his late fifties with a beer belly.
Is it cheating?
That probably depends on who you ask. Some people say that even if you’re in a relationship, cybersex isn’t cheating – because no fluids are exchanged. These individuals may see it more as interactive porn. Others believe that yes, it is cheating because one is likely to see another person’s private parts and at the very least exhibit explicit behavior outside of the relationship. Men who are couples need to feel their partner before starting — or continuing — with cybersex of any kind, or the relationship will end quickly and ugly.
Keeping the masculinity at work
Whether a guy is ready for a night of virtual sex, or lucky enough to have the real thing lined up, he’ll want to make sure his package is in top condition. To make the pecker pretty, you need to groom him a little — that doesn’t mean he has to go completely bald — but a trim around the edges is at the very least highly prized by anyone who minds his business. Then he has to take a pre-sex shower to freshen up and wash away a day’s worth of sweat and dirt. Finally, follow it up with a refreshing dose of penis health cream (health professionals recommend Man 1 Man Oil) packed with vitamin E and shea butter to keep penis skin silky smooth and ready for close-up.
Visit www.man1health.com to learn more about treating common penile health problems, including pain, redness and loss of penile sensation. John Dugan is a professional writer specializing in men’s health issues who is a constant contributor to numerous online websites.