Cybersex is an alternative form of sex that both couples and singles participate in. The great thing about cybersex is that you can remain completely anonymous and have the safest sex possible.
So whether you’re in a long-distance relationship or you enjoy sexual fantasies over the internet, cybersex can provide you with a satisfying sex life.
Where do you find someone?
There are plenty of places where you can find eager cybersex beavers. They contain:
1. Instant messaging
2. Social Networks
3. Online Dating Services
4. Chat Rooms
5. Forums on Women’s Sites
If you already have a partner, you can meet her at a prearranged destination on the internet or even have cybersex all day long via email. It’s up to you.
The tools: microphone, camera
When it comes to cybersex, you may want to at least invest in a microphone. That way, the woman you’re dating can hear your excitement and know she turns you on. Plus, there’s nothing harder than being incredibly excited and having to type with one hand.
Talk or write
Whether or not you have a microphone, you will have to be creative with your language. Imagination is the key to successful cybersex. However, the language you use will depend on the other person. Some women like dirty, vulgar language, while others prefer the “we’re walking on the beach and you’re looking my way” sort of slang. Feel her out before you start the fantasy conversation.
If you don’t have a microphone, don’t type things like “gasp, gasp” or “oh yeah, baby, yeah!” Being a good speller also helps a lot, especially if the other person is.
Start by asking what she’s wearing, then describe what you look like (if you don’t have a camera that lets her see you, then you can look like whoever you want). Then speak back and forth. Let her start a fantasy, then you go through with it, and keep going back and forth until you both have sex in the fantasy.
While there really aren’t any rules when it comes to cybersex, it’s better to throw yourself into the scene and indulge in the fantasy. At first you might feel a little ridiculous masturbating on a computer, but if you can give in to the situation, it can be a great experience.
If she can’t see you, but you have a microphone, take a deep breath every now and then to let her know you love the fantasy. Describe what you’re doing to yourself, or, if you’re engaging in a fantasy, what you’re doing to her.
Welcome to Cyberia
Enjoy your experience on the Net and beware of posers – Men impersonating women. Until next time, keep one hand on the keyboard .