Virtual Sex – Cybersex and You
Cybersex virtual sex has more than one definition. Most of us have participated in virtual sex. But we did it over the phone. It was usually a sexual or erotic conversation with our other half. Some time on the way home from work, we called and talked love talk with our partners as a form of verbal foreplay. With the popularity of the computer, we have moved to typing instead of telephone communication. So this definition of cybersex is just phone sex that has become typographical. We can probably all remember when we met someone in one of the pre-internet methods. And we spent a lot of time getting to know someone over the phone first. And if the other wasn’t close enough to be reached in moments or hours, we got to know him over the phone first. With the invention and popularity of the webcam, now video beats a normal phone conversation. Because now we have the added excitement of seeing the person you spoke to. I think most of us have learned that with video chatting, we have a lot more information available to us about the other person we’re chatting with. A phone call just didn’t give us the valuable information regarding the physical appearance of the other person because now we look at them and we can see it for ourselves. This video chat also added the dimension of seeing and being seen naked, or in the different stages of getting dressed or undressed. Now we can generate more excitement, because we can show and see as much of each other as the participant wishes. So if we remember or learn how we meet and get to know each other in the absence of the computer, our procedures are basically the same. We didn’t and don’t need the computer to do the same things we essentially do with them. Of course, the video portion of the call is currently unavailable without the PC. The only major difference is that we can now meet a lot of people very quickly, and our conversations are no longer verbal. I think if we look at cyber activities through the lens of that concept, we realize that cyber participants aren’t a bunch of socially inept dweebs who don’t have real lives.
In essence, the cyber activities have replaced telephone conversations to some extent. I remember spending a lot of time on the phone in the 1970s with ladies introduced to me by my many friends, and often this introduction was done over the phone. And I’m starting to get to know them over the phone before ever meeting them. Doesn’t that sound like what we’re doing now through the dating sites? The dating sites have replaced the need for introduction by friends. But now we have the friends who introduce us to new people in addition to the people we can meet on the dating sites. On the Internet sites, we have the opportunity to read what the person tells about themselves before deciding whether to try an introduction or not. When a friend introduces us to someone, we may feel like we have an obligation to meet that person, or at least pretend to. But with the dating sites, we don’t feel that pressure. It is a known fact that many lovers and loving partners talk dirty to each other on the phone. Often one of the partners will masturbate during such a phone call.
Does phone sex or cybersex count as cheating?
Sometimes it is before the phone call whether the call is expected or expected. Sometimes the phone call is like foreplay and the person gets so aroused that he will masturbate after that. This can of course be either the caller or the recipient of the call. Sometimes this action is unknown to the other partner, one party may masturbate without the knowledge of the other. But often this call is for the express purpose of sexual arousal. I remember before the computer was available to many of us. I remember having erotic conversations with my lady so that when I got to her she would already be very sexually aroused and close to orgasm before I even touched her. Needless to say her already aroused and wet this was very sexually arousing for me as well. However, the constant desire for sex can have underlying problems,
So cybersex is basically the same procedure or process that was used way back even before the invention or popularity of the computer, now we just associate this sexual or presexual activity with the computer. For many, the discovery of each other may have been made on a dating site, but the actual communication went to the phone. The importance of the computer is that with video chatting there is an added incentive to see or watch your partner or partners masturbate or show you how to masturbate. For mutual heightened sexual arousal or sexual satisfaction, they may look to each other. This can be done simultaneously or first one then the other, depending on the preference of the participants.
Next time, we’ll discuss how virtual sex actually seduces your cyber partner for you, so real in-person sex is guaranteed.
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